Pyar
Ki Dunia Me Khushi Rahena Mere Yar
Rajesh Khanna passed away yesterday by
uttering the last words “Time Ho Gaya, Pack Up”. What an extreme inner pain in
disguise of strong mental strength as well as his sense of humour had been
shown by him at the time of passing away by mumbling the last words. As if His
smiling face says with a deep sorrow to his all lovers, “Achchha To Hum Chalte
Hai”. Has he left his earthly body with heart-rending pain? The sentence, “Time
Ho Gaya, Pack Up” as if wanted to express so many suppressed words, which he
perhaps couldn’t tell in his past life to his beloved persons. It is said, when
one is extremely eager to speak out one’s mind, one’s tongue obstinately keeps
mum. That mum tongue as if told consciously everything to his beloved persons
through his last words. Today his funeral is being executed at pawanhans
crematorium of Vile parly in Mumbai. Thousands of lovers attended his funeral.
A romantic era came to an end. Till today I am overwhelmed for his evergreen romantic
personality. He was our one & only romantic hero in our youth times. The
scene of walking with smiling innocent face towards sea-shore by singing the
eternal heavenly song “Jindegi kaisi ye paheli haye, kabhi ye hasai kabhi ye
rulai” still contorts me, my body, my mind, my heart above all my soul. He is
no more physically among us, but his romantic presence of his past time with
innocent smile recall us, he was a truly representative of pure soul. As an
ordinary citizen & a fan of Rajesh Khanna, I want to express my extreme
painful grief for his passing away in a short period. This painful grief is
very much personal; I can’t share it at any cost with anybody. We want money,
name & fame and many other things in life, which is related with living
& growing. I am not criticizing him here but trying to untie the knot of
unhappiness & sorrowful life of his which is belonging with the truth
behind the curtain of so-called huge wealth as a true lover. Money, Name Fame almost everything he has
achieved by the grace or blessings of Almighty. So, why my beloved person has
left his earthly body so soon? Why someone will not live for a l-o-n-g period
of time? In spite of achieving all the needs of life by the grace of God why
one can not make oneself happy? We can say in a simple manner, it is nothing
else but destiny and who can oppose destiny? We are helpless in the face of
destiny. If we think so with strong belief then I can say also strongly in a
dignified manner that it is nothing but weakness of mind. Besides this,
whatever our destiny may be but we have to remain ready actively &
consciously to face the unknown & unfavorable situation with strong endless
self confidence in every step of our life. But how endless self confidence will
be built up & strengthen and then will be continued till the retirement
from life? The greatest phenomenon of the world Sri Sri Thakur Anukul Chandra
said, “We become & also get like the way we engage ourselves into different
matter. To become is to get. We, most of us want to be rich men but because of
lack of proper doings we can’t be (to become a rich man what we exactly should
do we don’t do that). Then we create such a negative philosophy that in spite
of doing we are not getting our desired goal. If there is deficiency in doings
or if we do not do in a proper manner, we will not get success and we do not
calculate about this. That is to say we do not earn any experience and we live
in an incredible and impossible conception in the name of destiny. Consequently
our doing, being and having is being destroyed.” So in consequence that of
saying of Sri Sri Thakur we can learn that destiny depends on doings and doings
mean flawless doing. HE says, “As much flawless as much good. On account of
that your power will be increased. Your habits will be built up for doing
flawlessly. By practicing in this
manner the brain cells would be active in an orderly manner. If you do
not go to the extreme point of doings you will not reach the pinnacle of the
aim. To build up oneself is a great work.” But the matter of grief is that we
are all covered with wounds all over by the stroke with fangs of so many
mistakes like venomous snakes in the course of life. Why so many mistakes are
being committed everyday in the course of our life? Living Supreme Being or
energy or spirit says here that, “When we are guided by complexes, at that time
mistakes take place in the course of life.” So, what is the way to avoid the
harmful mistakes? Living Supreme Being shows us the light of salvation from
every venomous mistake. HE says, “When we are for the lord, then mistakes don’t
belong in life.”
Rajesh Khanna, like many others, got everything in his life but our beloved romantic hero didn’t get peace in his life. However, we see from the above explanation that, So many mistakes guided him throughout his colorful life to discolor him. His conjugal life was very unhappy & sorrowful and most controversial. Conjugal peaceful life helps to fight with every awkward situation. If peace stays at home, peace stays in everywhere within every dark hole. It is heard that a rosary was a companion till the end of his life. It proves that he was having faith in GOD. So, from this point of view I want to say that we who have faith in GOD & love HIM without any terms & conditions they should believe in seen GOD, love & worship in living GOD instead of unseen GOD & of an imaginary image of GOD. Unseen God or an imaginary image can not say us anything about our good or bad habits or do’s & don’ts and can not guide us with proper manner. We can not concentrate to the formless or unembodied God. Supreme Being, spirit or energy whatever may be said, comes down himself in a human form in the mother’s womb in every era. The divine incarnation of the age as a Supreme human being is the cementing factor between two existences, it may be husband & wife, father & son, mother & daughter or two friends. So, we, everybody should be initiated by avoiding all superstitions to the living God i.e. Supreme Being i.e. ‘SADGURU’ as Ram, Krishna, Buddha, Jesus, Mohammad, Mahaprabhu, Ramkrishna & Anukulchandra and must follow HIS sayings instead of worship the unseen God or an imaginary image to become a perfect human being. Our fighting is only for ours & that is to be perfect in life. To build up oneself is a great work. The living Supreme Being our beloved Sri Sri Thakur Anukul Chandra says, “Going to school only doesn’t make a student, and taking initiation only doesn’t make a disciple. The heart should always be kept open to carry out the orders of the Master or Teacher. Have firm faith within. Whatever He says must be done and that without objection or excuse—rather, with the greatest pleasure.”(Satyanusaran). We all Guru & disciple, have & have nots, educated & uneducated, literate or illiterate, servant or owner, leader or public, king or soldier etc. whatever may be, must need a sailor for our life boat & should remember the poem of Reverend Sri Sri Ashok Chakroborty, Acharyadeb of Satsang, “You have no sailor in your life boat, that last day of life is very dangerous…….” So, please remember, If you want to enjoy your youth and all stage of life till leaving your body i.e. death. Please be disciplined in your life and if you want to be disciplined truly you have to be disciple of the Supreme Soul i.e. LIVING GOD i.e. ‘SADGURU’ first. It is first & foremost condition of your life to be disciplined & disciplined through initiation with the living Supreme Being. It is the one & only way to be disciplined; otherwise you will never be disciplined in any way throughout your life. Because the soul of the body wants to meet & merge with the supreme soul and for this meeting soul has to be balanced spiritually and psycho-physically. The root of the discipline word is disciple & disciple must be of the living embodiment of Supreme Father and it is nothing but the essence of the discipline word. No one has been disciplined in his/her life without surrendering himself / herself to the crimson feet of the LIVING GOD in the world, even if he/she is s.uccessful or great person. So, my beloved romantic hero I would like to say that it is my earnest prayer to the Almighty, please khus rahene ke liye let my hero live Pyar ki dunia me.
Written on
19th July’2012
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